Trying to Decide whether to have a church funeral or a non- religious life celebration? 

Deciding whether to have a church funeral or a non-religious life celebration ultimately depends on personal and cultural beliefs, traditions, and wishes of the deceased and their family. Here are some possible pros and cons of each:

Church funeral:

Pros:

• Offers a sense of familiarity and comfort to those who belong to the religious community of the deceased.
• Provides an opportunity for members of the community to come together to offer support and condolences to the family.
• Can include religious rituals and prayers that provide comfort and meaning to those who believe in them.
• May offer the deceased a sense of continuity with an eternal life, belief in resurrection, or their religion's afterlife.

Cons:

• May not reflect the beliefs or wishes of the deceased or their family who may not be religious or belong to a different faith.
• Could exclude people who don't share that particular religion or belief system.
• May not provide enough personalization or flexibility.
• Can be more expensive than a non-religious life celebration.

Non-religious life celebration:

Pros:

• Provides an opportunity to celebrate the life and legacy of the deceased in a more personalized and unique way that reflects their personality, beliefs, and values.
• Allows the family to create a more meaningful ceremony that honors the deceased's life.
• Can include music, poetry, artwork, and other meaningful elements that reflect the deceased's interests and passions.
• Can welcome a broad range of attendees without excluding anyone based on religion or beliefs.
• Generally less expensive than a church funeral.

Cons:

• May not offer the same level of spiritual or religious comfort to the family or attendees who may be more comfortable with traditional religious rituals and practices.
• Can be harder to plan and execute.
• Could cause anxiety or disappointment for family members who expect a more traditional religious funeral.

Ultimately, it's important for the family to weigh their preferences, beliefs, and expectations before making a decision on which type of ceremony to have. They may also consult with a funeral director or a religious leader to explore the available options and customize the ceremony to accommodate various needs and wishes.