This downloadable eulogy template, is easy to follow with lots of options to help you find the right words to say and, in the correct order. The template also has easy solutions if you are struggling for content. Very few people can write a successful eulogy without the help of a template.
Fill out the form below and you will receive a template in pdf format, suitable for printing, and with pen and paper write out the answers to the questions. You will be amazed how much easier it is to compose the eulogy with the variety of material to work with.
The definition of an eulogy is a speech to praise, honor, commemorate the life of a deceased person.
The choice of the “eulogist” or person who delivers the eulogy is usually made by the immediate family.
Or it may be a clergy, either the main celebrant or another invited to assist at the service, or a friend of the deceased.
The eulogy can be given by only one person, however it does not have to be restricted to just one; several people may pay tribute if so desired;
If there are several speakers be strict with their time allotment. Five minutes maximum each.
The task of writing a eulogy can seem over-whelming to many. By following these steps and tips, you will find it much easier. You may not use everything that is listed in the template. If you are struggling to find content for your eulogy, there are a variety of ideas on this website for you to pull from, such as quotes, poems and prayers.
"I think all of us here today, agree that (name of the deceased) lived by these rules."
THE EARLY YEARS
MARRIAGE AND FAMILY
Are you stuck on some of these details ? Struggling to think of stories to tell? Consider calling a family meeting, to recount favorite memories and the stories that made this person special and the significance of their life.
This in itself is a very healing process, as people relate stories and reminisce . Often there are tears and laughter.
Don't try to use all of these facts and details. The purpose of an eulogy template is not to cover every aspect of the person's life in your speech. However, it is much easier to write a speech when you have a variety of material to select from.
Writing a eulogy becomes very difficult when you are staring at a blank sheet of paper.
Do try to acknowledge in the eulogy the names of those that were closest to the person who died as well as important achievements in the person's life.
Remember that this speech is not about you. It is about the deceased. Sometimes speakers make the mistake of talking more about themselves than the person everyone is here to honor and celebrate. The best eulogies are those that focus on thoughts and memories of the deceased.
You may not use everything that is listed in the template. The intent is to help you create your speech with various things you can pull from, such as quotes, poems and prayers.
Once you've brainstormed and gathered memories sit down and write out your first draft from start to finish.
When Winston Churchill was asked about the length of a good speech, his reply was; "A good speech should be like a woman's skirt: long enough to cover the subject and short enough to create interest."
After you've written it, leave it for a day. Then review and polish.
Find adjectives that really capture the person's essence. Adding Eulogy quotes is a very helpful way for you to describe a person's character.
Other options are to include a favorite poem of the deceased, or a prayer.
This touching letter from a father to a son, who is about to give an eulogy to his grandfather will provide you tips in overcoming any fears in presenting an eulogy.
This won't be easy Sam. It will create emotions that may seem overwhelming but they are worthy emotions. They will be felt by all those who you are reading/speaking to but these emotions will be most intense for you.
Your Grandpa would be proud of you.
Here are a few tips from your old man:
Speak slowly. Do not rush. Take your time.
Speak clearly. Practice reading aloud. The folks will want to hear you.
If your emotions well up…wait. It’s okay, just wait and then move on.
Read like you are talking to a friend.
Be yourself. Be Sam.
It may not be the most difficult speech you ever deliver, but it will be one of the most rewarding experiences.
No matter what happens, it will be okay.
If you need to cry in the middle of reading, everyone will understand. Take a moment to get it together as best as you can, then continue.
Don't be embarrassed.
Remember, giving a eulogy is speaking from your heart and that people will appreciate, admire and remember. They need you to do this.
DO: Jump right into your speech.
DON'T: Don't start with 'we are gathered here today to honor the life of...' Everyone knows why they are there.
DO: Study some of the eulogies on this site for ideas.
Senator Edward Kennedy's for his nephew, John Kennedy,Jr. is a beautiful example. It contains all the right elements; humor, poetry, and stories.
DO: Recognize the family members who are grieving by name. Note how Senator Kennedy does so. The family of the deceased appreciate being recognized for the tremendous loss they are experiencing.
DON'T: Don't say things about the deceased that aren't so. People attending will know.
DO: Giving an eulogy can be a difficult speech to give. Remember your audience will understand, and be sympathetic and supportive if you need to pause for composure.
DON'T: If you are having trouble trying to think of something to say, don't try to do it alone. Ask friends and family members to share with you their memories or stories. They will be thrilled to hear them included in your speech. Everyone loves to hear stories.
DO: If you select a poem or passage be sure to practice reading it aloud to make sure you are comfortable with it. If a child is to do a reading, rehearse with them to ensure they read it slowly, so that people can grasp the words.
DO: Refrain from foul or off-color language. Now is not the time to reminisce about drinking escapes - particularly if the service is in a church. However, if you are quoting the deceased in an amusing story, it is perfectly acceptable. Believe it or not, laughter is incredibly healing for the soul, and entirely appropriate at this time.
Thi svideo of Shaq's tribute to Kobe is a perfect example.
DON'T: Don't ad lib. There is nothing wrong with reading your speech. People expect it.
Ideally your speech should be no more than 5 minutes long.
Still feel like you are sinking in quicksand at the thought of giving the speech while everyone at the service stares at you? I know a lot of people talk about "Stage Fright"...
Stage Fright is usually a symptom of not being prepared when giving a speech. The more confident you are, the more enjoyable your eulogy. Folks will be able to tell by your voice and mannerisms.
A great eulogy is often the most remembered and significant element of the service.
I have seen many people upset with themselves for years after the service, because they just couldn't verbalize the sentiments they had for their loved one.
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When you present the right eulogy - one that brings out the positive and great memories of the your loved one - you can completely transform the mood the funeral. This is the truth behind great speeches - by presenting with heart.
It can be a tough task when writing the eulogy for someone who has run into trouble with the law or drugs or alcohol. Try to recall better days. A Sample Eulogy for a life gone wrong, or a death by suicide.
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